About Me

I’m a writer, researcher, advocate, and Founder and CEO of Beyond The Box Advocacy.

I’m interested in how policy affects the choices people with disabilities can make about where they live, go to school, work, build relationships, and plan for the future.

I bring research, advocacy, writing, and lived experience together. I’m especially interested in disability support service portability and continuity because reliable support can affect whether someone can move, pursue an opportunity, or make a major life decision.

Across my work, I keep coming back to the same question: What would become possible if disability systems were built around the lives people actually want to lead?

Ms. Los Angeles 2026

I’m proud to serve as the inaugural United Crown of America Ms. Los Angeles 2026.

My platform focuses on representation for girls and women with disabilities. For younger girls with disabilities, I want adulthood to come with visible examples of women building careers, pursuing education, forming relationships, leading, dressing beautifully, setting huge goals, and creating lives that feel like their own.

More examples of disabled adulthood can give girls a wider sense of who they might become.

Lilly Grossman wearing her Ms. Los Angeles crown and sash while seated in her power wheelchair.

Image description: Lilly smiles toward the camera while seated in her power wheelchair outdoors in front of a fountain and greenery. She is wearing a jeweled crown, a white Ms. Los Angeles sash, and a light pink tweed dress.

My Platform: See Her. Be Her.

My platform is called See Her. Be Her. and focuses on increasing disability representation and helping girls with disabilities see women with disabilities represented as leaders, professionals, community members, and titleholders.

My hope is that girls with disabilities grow up seeing people with disabilities living full, ambitious, ordinary lives. The more examples of adulthood they can see, the more possibilities they can imagine for their own futures.

Collaborations and Appearances

As Ms. Los Angeles 2026, I’m available for appearances and collaborations connected to disability representation, accessibility, leadership, and community engagement.

Speaking and Public Engagement

  • Speaking engagements and panels
  • Media interviews
  • Youth, school, and pageant appearances

Community and Events

  • Community and nonprofit events
  • Galas, fundraisers, and civic events
  • Titleholder and community partnerships

Brands and Media

  • Brand partnerships and campaigns
  • Hosted experiences
  • Accessibility and representation campaigns

Contact